Dear Carolyn: I do much more housework than my husband -- maybe 70/30. When I complain, he says he doesn't mind grimy bathtubs or piled-up paper, and since I do mind, then I should do the cleaning.

He says it's unfair for me to unilaterally set house standards and then force him to live up to them: The solution could just as easily be for me to do less, not for him to do more.

I'm not asking for a daily baseboard scrubbing, just a weekly vacuum, bathroom cleaning, and laundry.

-- Well, It's Messy TO ME

More at source: Oregon Live

Discuss This Article Here

Find A Cleaning Service Here

Follow IJCSA On Facebook Here